build,src,crypto: improve startup performance

[avivkeller]

(I can split these into separate PRs if needed, but I figured a single PR with separate commits would be sufficient since the changes are related: ce94bb8 made me think about 2dffdbf, which in turn relied on a1ba046.)

In order of commits, this:

• Avoids atexit(), since it's slow (dladdr() performs an expensive linear scan of the executable's symbol table)
• Lazily-loads well-known Crypto ciphers
• Once again avoids atexit(), this time in OpenSSL.

On my mac, improves startups by ~15%:

$ hyperfine --warmup 25 --runs 100 'node -e "0"' './node -e "0"'

Benchmark 1: node -e "0"
  Time (mean ± σ):      39.3 ms ±   2.2 ms    [User: 31.6 ms, System: 6.4 ms]
  Range (min … max):    36.5 ms …  55.0 ms    100 runs
 
  Warning: Statistical outliers were detected. Consider re-running this benchmark on a quiet system without any interferences from other programs. It might help to use the '--warmup' or '--prepare' options.
 
Benchmark 2: ./node -e "0"
  Time (mean ± σ):      34.2 ms ±   2.1 ms    [User: 26.4 ms, System: 6.4 ms]
  Range (min … max):    32.4 ms …  49.3 ms    100 runs
 
  Warning: Statistical outliers were detected. Consider re-running this benchmark on a quiet system without any interferences from other programs. It might help to use the '--warmup' or '--prepare' options.
 
Summary
  ./node -e "0" ran
    1.15 ± 0.10 times faster than node -e "0"

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/crypto
• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/security-wg
• @nodejs/startup
• @nodejs/v8-update

[jasnell]

Please separate out the crypto ones into a separate PR and coordinate with @panva ... he has some other edits that may conflict.

[panva]

a1ba046 conflicts with #65484, please hold off updating crypto until those changes land.

[panva]

Thank you

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 78.57143% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 90.11%. Comparing base (ce40aa2) to head (2dffdbf).
⚠️ Report is 3 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/crypto/crypto_context.cc	77.77%	0 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
src/node.cc	75.00%	0 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   90.14%   90.11%   -0.03%     
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  Files         751      751              
  Lines      253635   253645      +10     
  Branches    47793    47786       -7     
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- Hits       228632   228574      -58     
- Misses      16249    16315      +66     
- Partials     8754     8756       +2     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/crypto/crypto_aes.h	33.33% <ø> (ø)
src/crypto/crypto_chacha20_poly1305.cc	52.27% <100.00%> (ø)
src/node.cc	76.58% <75.00%> (-0.07%)	⬇️
src/crypto/crypto_context.cc	71.75% <77.77%> (+0.08%)	⬆️

... and 38 files with indirect coverage changes

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